You don’t need a mirror on the wall to see who you are, how you look or even how you are perceived. All you need to do is look at the people in your life.
They are a direct reflection of what you think of yourself. Now this realization will either make you feel pretty content or scare the hell out of you. If you’re scared, that’s a good thing.
It means you don’t like what you see and it’s time to go about changing it. The only way to do this is by changing yourself. Remember, you cannot change other people. It’s not your job and it’s a cop out. It all falls under the umbrella of control and who is to say you are right and they are wrong, anyway?
People are where they are at any given point because they are choosing to be. It is not your job to move them along on the journey, it’s theirs. Some people don’t even know they are on one!
When you start to look at life this way: that everyone and everything around you is a mere reflection of how you feel about yourself and what you have been focusing on, you start to become very attuned to what you are thinking about. This is also how you become a conscious creator of your reality and you see how easy it is to manifest what you want instead of what you don’t.
I read people and situations all the time. Every single day is a lesson into my inner world and where my thoughts are. If I do not like what I see, then I change my thoughts immediately because I am highly aware that every single person in my life is a mirror for where my thoughts about myself have been in the past or currently are.
You must be the guard at the gate of your thoughts. What are you creating? Where is your focus? Look around you. Do you really want to repeat more painful lessons of self worth by attracting people who show you how horrible you feel about yourself? Or do you want to attract people who will value you for the super awesome person that you are? It’s an easy one for me! I’m done with shit heads!
I’m not just talking smack here, so test it yourself. Focus on red cars today. Think about seeing red cars. Look for them! I promise you that you will see them. When you see how easy it is to bring red cars into your reality, you will easily make the transition into bringing what you really want into it.
Remember, what you think is what you get. So think good shit!