too powerful to be defeated or overcome.


How invincible are you? I’m feeling pretty gangster these days. Ole Pat Benatar was right. Life is a mystery and we never know where its taking us. There seems to be some grand plan we are not made aware of  and despite our best efforts to try and control the outcome, this seems to be when we get thwarted most.

Won’t anybody help us? Hell to the no! Had to learn that the hard and painful way. It’s all you baby. If you’re on this path of enlightenment it’s a lonely one. Not too many people get it. Look around you! You don’t have to look far. Most people are in a coma!

The key to transcending anything is looking within instead of out. Get triggered much? I used to all the time. I felt like everyone was a lesson. Now when I get triggered I realize I don’t want to be attached to “that” whatever “that” is, so I sit down with pen and paper and write down why something someone said bothered me and do the exact opposite. I am gonna keep doing this till there is nothing left to write.

Because life has a way of smashing us in the face with a brick or throwing us to the pavement when we ignore things that bother us and tell ourselves it will go away. When we keep doing the same shit we get the same shit and unless you like that shit, don’t do it. Life is always trying to lead us down the best possible path, it’s our egos that thwart us and I don’t know about you, but I don’t much care for the feel of bricks or gravel, so I just roll with it now.

With the power of conviction there is no sacrifice, meaning stay the course and don’t waver from it. What’s the course? Love the self! Love  yourself so much that nothing else matters. Do not allow fear to get in the way. Fear is a fucking monster. It is the reason we never reach our potential, have the life we deserve or get off the couch and go for what we want.

It’s a do or die situation if you want what you want. You cannot let fear keep you from being invincible. I skin faded my son’s hair on Tuesday. I only learned how to hold a clipper a week ago! Was I scared? Absolutely! He is graduating today and the last thing I wanted him to be was bald. I didn’t sleep the night before but I knew I would be okay. I was committed to a great outcome and at the end of the day, it’s just hair.

You have to get to a place of trust and know without a doubt that you will be lead exactly where you need to be in divine timing. There’s that word! Divine timing. I fucking hated those words for the longest time. Who the hell is this divine and why do they, he or she get to decide when I get what I want?

Well if you have been on this journey as long as I have, you start to understand that you are the divine. I am the divine. We all are. We have to become one with ourselves. We have to love all parts of us, not just the ones that everyone else notices. And in doing so we begin to co-create with the divine outside of ourselves, spirit, God, Universe, whatever you want to call it.

When we become whole within ourselves, we don’t feel the need or acceptance from anything or anyone. We don’t feel lonely and we don’t yearn for something outside of ourselves because we know we are complete. We are invincible.

What are you waiting for?


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Gretchen Allison

Actress/Model, supporter of Dogs In Danger, National Mill Dog Rescue and a Fellow Barber in training. I love the ocean, people with integrity, deep house music, travel, learning new skills and margaritas. Not necessarily in that order. I wrote a chick-lit book called Oh Shiksa! which is a great beach read. You can purchase it on Amazon

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