a reason for doing something, especially one that is hidden or not obvious.

I find it very interesting that anyone would even have a motive. To me, it is a clear indicator of a person who is highly calculating. If you feel someone has a motive, than it’s someone you should steer clear of. A person with a motive, is a person who is self serving and we’re done with that.

I have no motive. You either resonate with what I am saying or you don’t. And while I do appreciate anyone who takes the time to subscribe to my blog, I don’t measure my self esteem or self worth based on follows. I simply take it as a sign that there are people who are on the same page as I am. I know I’m not for everybody and I’m fine with that. I just create and say what I feel.

Unfortunately though our world is filled with people who do have motives, which in all honesty, makes me completely sick. I have future plans to help those who deal with these dark souls who tread in dark waters, but in the meantime I focus on what I have already created which brings me great joy.

I don’t worry about much anymore. I know that everything happens for a reason we cannot even begin to understand and if you simply trust that there is a higher power guiding you at every given moment, life becomes much more simple and are far less complicated. Most people complicate everything! They try so hard to control everything that they essentially become controlled and no longer live; they just exist. They live in a prison of their own making because they become so consumed with having this or having that and care so much about what other people think, instead of focusing on what they do.

I no longer care to live a life of chaos, complications and confusion, which is why I try very hard to live in the moment. When I stay in the moment I know I am blessed beyond belief. Even when my life just sucks, all I have to do is look at my children, my mother and my sister and I realize I am surrounded by love wherever I look.

My boys are an absolute joy! They have become amazing men that I am truly proud of and support me and one another without question. We laugh together, have talks about everything from the mundane to the inappropriate, we share our lives, our dreams, our goals and give advice to one another without hesitation. We love one another without conditions, and in my opinion, it is the only love that can last.

And while we may be too much for some people, those who choose to be in our company cannot get enough of the elixir that is our very essence.

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I’m a creative. This means I live in my head, my heart and follow inspiration whenever it is gifted to me. I love acting, modeling, writing and coming up with new ideas to help inspire others.

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