The dictionary’s meaning of a problem: a matter or situation regarded as unwelcome or harmful and needing to be dealt with and overcome.
The real meaning of a problem: the ego perceives a situation or person as unwelcome or harmful and creates one.
There are no problems. We literally have no problems…until we make one. We make problems because we blame other people for the way our lives are going or have turned out. We not only blame them, we shame them, ridicule them, become jealous and envious of them and may even try to restrain them, by doing everything we can to try and make them feel as awful as we do.
But doing this to another person only perpetuates our problems because this type of negativity always comes back to us. When you send ill will to someone, you are only sending it to yourself. You cannot attract anything light into your life when you are at such a state of darkness. No light can reach the dark. They do not exist together.
If you do not wish to create more darkness in your life, then you have to understand that the real problem you have, aside from the ones you are creating, is the way you are perceiving a situation or the people involved. It is only your perception, therefore it isn’t a problem. It’s just your ego operating from a place of fear.
People do not respond well to anyone operating from their ego. They feel the anger and vitriol coming off of you and ignore you. Others may lash out for a time and then grow tired of the drama and eventually ignore you too. After a time you will be the only one standing in the arena because people who do not operate from their ego, operate from their heart, which is a completely different vibration.
If you continue to operate from fear, you will only manifest more of it. When you operate from your heart, all of the good stuff in life flows effortlessly to you. I have talked about this before because I think it is vital for anyone who is trying to manifest and is not able to.
There are a few ways to let go of fear and allow yourself to heal from this place of low vibing energy. You have to practice forgiving. Forgive others who you feel have wronged you. Look within at how you have contributed. Ask yourself what you could have done better. Let go of the need to control. You cannot control another person, and why would you want to? Be thankful for what you have. You have more than most, I guarantee it. Be honest, be open and let go of any thoughts that are keeping you in this loop of fear.
There is more than enough for everyone and there is never any need to feel lack. Lack is a state of mind. If you are feeling like you have nothing, watch the news; you will see just how much you actually have.
Stay in your heart. It is where all manifestations and everything you ever dreamed of, exists. Or keep staying in your ego and a place of fear and watch your life implode. The choice is yours.
I know what I choose, because it works.