The longer I live, the more I realize just how simple life is. And the more I come to this realization, the more I attract people who feel the same way.
Let me explain. When you let go and allow, the Universe provides. If you don’t like that lingo, then how about, when you lose the control you desperately cling to and let life lead you where it is trying to, instead of where your ego thinks it should be, life gets easier.
I wish I could go back in time and tell my younger self this. I cannot even imagine how different my life would have been. I try and tell my kids this now, because I see how many young people are struggling these days with their day to day lives and their futures.
Where the heart is, is all that ever matters. And while that may sound simple or cheesy, it really is true. When you get to this place of understanding that your heart has always been trying to guide you to bliss, you allow it.
But so many of us fight it. We continue on a path of programs and conditioning and what we think we are supposed to do. We give value to things that don’t matter. We respect people because of their position in our lives instead of respecting them for what really counts.
The more I let go of things and people that have never appreciated, valued or loved me, the more I manifest. This is what honoring yourself and your choices does for you. And while letting go is not easy, it is essential, in order for you to become who you were meant to be.
People try to keep you small. I don’t believe it is intentional, but I do believe it needs to change. You might be the change maker in your family. And if you are, be thankful.
You didn’t come here to play by the rules or play small. You came here to be heard, seen and loved for who you are. And until people understand that your words, actions and emotions are coming from where the heart is, you might feel very alienated and alone, but that’s only because you haven’t met people who vibe where you do…yet.
It’s not easy to do this and you will be tested…time and time again. The Universe will ask, “How much do you value yourself?” And you have to respond.
The response is not easy, but essential. You have to be willing to let go of people who have not been kind to you. It doesn’t matter who it is, because your well being cannot be compromised. One time of dismissal is one time too many, but sometimes it takes us a few of those painful moments to understand we never meant much to a person in the first place.
This is where the healing begins. When you feel, you heal. And when you heal, this marvelous thing happens. It’s as if the Universe rewards you ten fold. You want what? Of course you can have it! How about three? I’m not kidding! People are sent to you, opportunities are sent to you, and acceptance is there as well.
It’s almost as if you climbed out of some cocoon and the world is seeing you for the first time. And perhaps it is. You… the real you. How gorgeous is that?
Embrace you heart! It is where all of life’s magic is.