We’ve all been heartbroken when it comes to love relationships. When I think about the heartache I have endured, I can tell you in all honesty that I have never truly felt loved in any of mine. I always felt very lonely.
The reason for this is of no fault of the people I was with. The fault was within me. I didn’t love myself enough, therefore I always put their needs ahead of mine. When you do this, you set yourself up for a whole lot of disappointment.
I now know what real love feels like, because I learned to give it to myself. I had to. It was out of survival. The heartache of realizing that someone you are with didn’t ever really ever love you, they only loved the role you played in their life, completely breaks you down and the only thing you can do is build yourself up again.
This song talks of good days and believing in those, no matter what has happened to you in love. Just because you learn to love yourself doesn’t mean you don’t want love from someone else. It simply means you don’t need it to fulfill you and the right person will feel the same way.
I believe in good days in love. They are far more common when you connect with someone who feels the same way you do, then the bad ones. No matter what has happened between two people, if the connection and pull towards one another is there, you can overcome anything and I mean anything.
Forgiveness is a wonderful thing and sometimes it isn’t even necessary. What is necessary though, is taking a leap of faith towards love again so that you can heal. People heal one another in love. You can do all the work you want, but when all is said and done, the true test to your healing is the ability to love again.
Focus on the good days, not the bad or sad ones. It’s what I’m doing, and I can hardly wait to be with the person that the Universe is sending me for doing so.