This song literally goes on forever! But I like the beat of it, just like I like mixing the vibe.
When you mix the vibe, you attract different people. This can be good or bad. I choose good. I attracted bad long enough. Bad drags you down, steals your shine and makes it their own, all while leaving you utterly depleted.
Once you mix the vibe in a positive way, you attract people who are doing the same. I’m talking about people who know their worth and need not steal your pearls to try and make themselves out to be something they are not, especially when they are incapable of producing an original thought.
Yesterday I had the pleasure of working with some really awesome people. They were all independent and relied on no one to fulfill them. They were confident, outgoing, attractive and intelligent. I knew this was a turning point for me and a testament to all of the work I have done on myself. You see, when you raise your vibe, you attract people who have done the same.
You know your current state of vibe by the people that are around you. I cannot stress enough how important it is to surround yourself with people who vibe high. The higher you vibe, the more abundance you attract. Abundance is not just money; it’s a way of life. It’s the relationships you bring in, your quality of life, your health, mental state, etc. Your vibration is everything!
If you have toxic people in your life, no matter how hard you work, you will never reach the state of abundance you are trying to. It is literally impossible. Toxic people have a very toxic energy and their negativity directly effects your vibration, which effects your manifestations.
Here’s how negative energy from negative people works. When you are with a person who does not love themselves, they are highly manipulative and will do and say things to chip away at your self esteem in order to build theirs up. There is actually a term for it and it was made into a movie called “Gaslight.” They are jealous of your accomplishments and will try and undermine you at every cost. You are completely unaware of this of course, because you can’t even imagine someone would do this, especially when they claim to care about you.
But when you start to think about all of the opportunities you have had in front of you and somehow they never worked out, no matter how hard you worked, you have to pause and reflect on what could possibly be the problem. Your inclination might to be to work harder, smarter, take classes, meet more people, etc. But even then after all that, you still can’t manage to get where you imagine yourself to be.
And here’s why. When you are with a person who is toxic, they literally suck the life out of you. You are always trying to convince them that you care, that they matter. You are always placating them, building them up and talking them off the ledge because their erratic behavior and poor decision making threatens your security, stability and safety. They are literally always one step away from imploding and they will take everyone who is in their life, with them. They do this so frequently, you’re literally a therapist who is on-call. So how can you possibly have any energy left for your passions?
When you get to this place of complete and utter awe of how no matter how hard you try, nothing seems to manifest, you suddenly realize that the problem was never you, it was the toxic environment you live in, you start setting boundaries.
You absolutely have to say no to people who take your goodness and give nothing in return. But be prepared! The person you cut off will lash out at you, call you names and trash talk you to anyone who will give them an audience. And while this is hurtful, you need to understand that it is very telling of the person they were all along.
But the good new is…the Universe will reward you. It’s as though it says, “Finally! I thought that b-atch was deaf and blind after all the signs we sent her to remove that toxic blankety blank from her life.” And it’s as if, like magic, the abundance flows.
So if signs are being sent your way, do not ignore them. The more you ignore them, the stronger they get and you don’t want to get that tower moment where you don’t dodge the bullets that are being sent your way.
These signs are trying to guide you on a path that is better for you. So you can either keep ignoring the signs, or let that tower hit. Because if you are a person who is conscious, it’s comin for ya! The Universe will not allow you to remain small.
I am so juked about my future! I have never been more positive, because I am leaving behind all negativity and everything and everyone who ever stole my shine, my pearls, and literally plagiarized my brilliance and tried to pass it off like it was their own.
Keep shining! The brighter you shine, the more you attract shinier people and shinier options. And those bitter, empty, self loathing people who tried to diminish your shine, will become nothing more than a lesson you needed to learn in order to love yourself. It’s a cruel one for sure and if you are a person who has suffered through a relationship with a covert narcissist, just know you will never have to repeat this lesson again.
Keep shining! You may never get back the time you spent with someone like that, but just know your shine, really pisses them off. It’s karmic justice.